Friday, April 29, 2011

SATURDAY'S HERE -- WHY DON"T YOU HAVE A DATE!

If you want a husband, you have to get out there and socialize.  When you're marketing any product, including yourself (duh: yeah you -- you are a product) you have to promote it.  So your first goal is to make us want you.  I am not preparing you to waste your time with any ol' dude with a pulse; we're going for your Mr. Right -- the top shelf guy with the following characteristics:  

1.   God Fearing -- Yeah he says grace over our food and he prays over his family.  He loves his mother and respects her.  So he wants a wife who understands.  Are you his potential wife?  We'll see.  Let's find out.

2.  Rich -- He looks great and makes lots of money.  Surprised? Probably -- because you have been looking in all the wrong places.  He doesn't hang out in clubs.  He likes sports but could take or leave them.  He occasionally hangs out in bars but he sneaks out before it gets too late.  Why haven't you met him?  Because he doesn't wear his wealth on his sleeve.  He drives a Honda but lives in a neighborhood that's very expensive.  You will only be invited to his home after you pass muster.  Is this too hard for you? I'll teach you how to scope him out.  You don't have the right tools yet so you haven't found him.

3. Dates Discretely -- He doesn't like random women.  You may have spoken with him casually but never scratched the surface of a real conversation.  If you did you'd find out that he likes women with simple sophistication.  They may be a little older; richer than him but not silly like you.  These women make him spaghetti; like to spoon on the sofa; give him counsel on his business and they share wine in private. He trusts those who don't want or need his money.  But he's generous to a fault once you get under his skin.  He likes the smell of expensive candles, loves peek-a-boo lingerie and cashmere socks.  His pocket square cost $100 so don't insult him with a key chain or bottle of cheap wine.  Are you ready to up-your-game? 

4. Turn-ons -- He loves the fact you're independent.  But not too independent because he wants to dazzle you with his intelligence, needs to feel needed and seeks your approval and advice.  He will teach you something new but if you know everything he will pass you by.  He doesn't care about your weight.  Don't judge him like your girlfriends judge you.  Simple elegance turns him on -- not too much cleavage, nothing too tight -- but tasteful and sexy.  Opt for skirts in lieu of pants; heels in lieu of flats; sporty well-done hair that is consistent -- no matter the length.  He loves manicured nails because he manicures his. His business requires him to be well-groomed so you must be consistently on point.  Smell good; drape yourself in natural fabrics, the finest leathers you can afford. 

5.  Hobbies -- He loves to cook, buys great furniture and owns a watch that's worth more than his car.  His shirts may be custom made so get used to boxes coming for him in the mail.  His shoes come from Italy and Spain; his watch is worth more than his car.  He won't admire you for ripping the sticker off your car and racking up tons of debt.  You will find him living in a great neighborhood pruning trees, running his dogs and writing books. He plants flowers; tracks stocks and hangs out at car dealerships test-driving cars he's too cheap to buy.  He's up on the latest stereo equipment and electronics.  He's your accountant, doctor, veterinarian, or dry cleaner.  He's every guy you meet on the street but with the right filter you'll recognize him right away.  Sound boring? Probably but get to know him and you may learn something new.

6. He Loves Sex -- I mean love love loves sex.  But guess what -- he knows you love it too.  And he expects you to make him wait even when he'll try to convince you otherwise.  Look, we have mothers and sisters and we live by a double standard.   He'll want to push you to the sexual edge and blow your mind; and he'll leave you hot and bothered after a steamy, passionate kiss.  So if you want a husband -- hook him and tease him but don't bed him unless you are willing to suffer the consequences.  Guess what: If he wants you badly enough, he'll fly you to Vegas and marry you in three months.  Be prepared -- get your white dress ready.  But also, get ready for the craziest, freakiest mind-blowing sex you've ever imagined.  He'll want to please you.  Just make him feel pretty and don't cheat on him.  Trust goes a long way!

So now that you know what waiting for you -- Are you ready for this?  Nearly everyday you'll receive a new tip; a plan of action.  In no time Groom ME will do just that, GROOM YOU!

ACTION:

Call a guy you barely know and tell him you need his advice on one of the following:
1. Desire for a golf or personal trainer
2. Looking for a car like the brand he drives
3. Looking to purchase or refinance your home and seek his advice. 

Invite him for coffee.

Tell us your results.

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A former Marriage Coach, Author, Corporate Executive and Entrepreneur, Darby Thornton expouses his Christian-based philosophies to educate women on how to find true love. As a faithful husband of nearly 20 years, Darby rebukes the myth that there are not enough good men for women to marry. Feel free to review his latest book, "What A Fool Belives" and explore a comical look at the painful reality of love, betrayal, and redemption. "What A Fool Believes" can be purchased on Amazon eBooks and downloaded in an instant. Any insights you are willing to share are greatly appreciated. Also, feel free to also submit any questions that may assist you in finding true love.

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